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Offline Mervin

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Not a request but a dedication to a special energy
« on: December 19, 2018, 02:10:13 PM »
As some of you know, we have been trying as a family the best to assist in any means my brothers wife (35 years young) who was suffering from cancer.
I have been on and off the forum trying to get to some promises but alas, the sad news is she has lost the battle and we will take some time off to go and show respect.
Life is full of lessons but for the a cruel lesson is for the young ones, 6 and 8 years needing to adjust.
Thanks for some of the chats.
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Re: Not a request but a dedication to a special energy
« Reply #1 on: December 19, 2018, 02:22:34 PM »
Sorry to hear about this Mervin. Condolences to the family, especially at this time of the year.


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Re: Not a request but a dedication to a special energy
« Reply #2 on: December 19, 2018, 02:23:10 PM »
Sorry to hear Mervin. Your family will be in my thoughts. Sterkte.

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Re: Not a request but a dedication to a special energy
« Reply #3 on: December 19, 2018, 03:19:14 PM »
Absolute horror Mervin. At any age, but at 35, that's just indescribable. My condolences and strength to your and your brother's family.
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Re: Not a request but a dedication to a special energy
« Reply #4 on: December 19, 2018, 03:30:39 PM »
Condolences to your and your brother's family, Mervin. Sterkte.

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Re: Not a request but a dedication to a special energy
« Reply #5 on: December 19, 2018, 03:35:22 PM »
Condolences to everyone left behind Mervin. Special thoughts for the children, it hits them the hardest in the long term.

The Big C really is the scourge of our generation, it has claimed more family & friends than anything else.
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Re: Not a request but a dedication to a special energy
« Reply #6 on: December 19, 2018, 03:58:50 PM »
My condolences to you and the family Mr Pearce.

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Re: Not a request but a dedication to a special energy
« Reply #7 on: December 19, 2018, 04:55:29 PM »
Life is ironically cruel in that it includes a wildcard called death, that makes its presence felt at random times. Condolences and strength to her and your friends and family.
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Re: Not a request but a dedication to a special energy
« Reply #8 on: December 19, 2018, 05:23:28 PM »
So sad. Condolences Mervin. Must be so hard on the kids.
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Re: Not a request but a dedication to a special energy
« Reply #9 on: December 19, 2018, 05:38:51 PM »
So sorry to hear Mervin.

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Re: Not a request but a dedication to a special energy
« Reply #10 on: December 19, 2018, 07:01:34 PM »
Mervin, my sincere condolences on your devastating loss.
Be gentle and patient with each other as you all navigate your own paths of mourning. The great memories will endure, the pain will slowly ebb.


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Re: Not a request but a dedication to a special energy
« Reply #11 on: December 19, 2018, 07:16:02 PM »
Heartbreaking  :'(

Condolences to your and your brother's family, Mervin
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Re: Not a request but a dedication to a special energy
« Reply #12 on: December 19, 2018, 08:05:24 PM »
Mervin my friend, I am so so sorry to hear the news. Mandy & I send our love to you and your family and wish you the strength to pull through what will be a very trying time indeed.

Just this week I had the good fortune of being handed a large quantity of quality toys and had the privilege of handing them to the staff of Choc. They are on their way to East London Choc House and willl see a few very deserving kids get a good and happy Christmas. Having lost family to cancer I can empathize with what you are feeling and itís not easy.

I wonít say let me know if you need anything, I will rather say, call and we can be there in the hour...
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Re: Not a request but a dedication to a special energy
« Reply #13 on: December 19, 2018, 09:54:27 PM »
Jammer om te hoor Mervin.  Sterkte vir julle familie in hierdie moeilike tyd.

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Re: Not a request but a dedication to a special energy
« Reply #14 on: December 19, 2018, 10:11:59 PM »
Sorry to hear of your loss Mervin, no more suffering for her anymore, wish your family draws  great strength from this.

We will keep you in our prayers. Sterkte.
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