The amp is now with her new owner. The demo went well, especially the thunderous loudness that a single ended amp can deliver through high sensitivity speakers. I do not know how much dB were emitted, but it felt like being close to the stage at a live electric music show.
To recap: I did some simulations on SEcad of Glassware, and realized that the flabby bass I heard was probably 2nd order distortion. Running a tube at 100% is not a good idea anyway. I have to still hear the tube that sounds best at 100%. The simulations indicated that much lower 2nd order distortion can be had at lower voltages. At 250V the distortion drops to about 1%, but you can only get mWatts into the speakers. Most people seem to opt for just over 300V on the anodes. Keep in mind that I am using 5K:8ohm OPT.
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The first tweak was to change the power supply to choke input filter. Like magic the voltage dropped to 280V.The choke started to sound like a diesel generator in the distance. Choke input filters probably like big cores to do the job.
At this setting the sound improved dramatically, but the bass was a bit thin. Cathode resistors were changed to 220ohm and the sound was starting to get close to audio nirvana. Dissipation were now at 69%.
Next I added a 1uF 630V polyprop cap as first cap in the pi filter (power supply). Voltage went up to 290V. The sound was even better. Eventually I settled on 2uF for the first cap value. Voltage is now 310V and the choke is silent. This was the configuration with which the amp shipped. (BTW the 6DJ8 were at 230V on the totem pole with the original 330R values on cathodes)