Hi guys - that screenshot was during the automatic setup procedure - the EQ as well as the frequency curve changes every second or so 25 times - so thats not the final result - it was just during the autosetup run - maybe i should rather post what the final result looked like instead of a picture during the run but i will do that when i borrow a tripod and redo it - sorry i didnt take a picture of the final resultant curve and when i left that section of the menu - if i go back now its all is a screen that shows up flat and ready for manual adjustment and i would have to redo the adjustment to get that pic but as you guys pointed out its probably better off on a tripod (theres a different microphone neck to fit on a tripod as well)
i also realized that the camera click could have affected the run - so i redid it and sat quietly immediately thereafter - and as for setting manually - i tried for around an hour and i merely succeeded in getting the bass to sound like it was a delayed drunken version of the sound echoing after itself but the autosetup is easy and that good

i agree that the listening position could possibly do with some adjustment and i am going to definitely try that out ie using a chair in front of the couch but the hassle then is i dont have huge width or depth in the room and i will be getting very close to the speakers - either way i will try it out and report back but the last time i tried it out i didnt hear too much of a difference
i can try and borrow a tripod - we did use one with the Auddyssey microphone for setting up the alpine car headunit using the imprint and MulteQxt setup - so the owner of the sub does have a tripod lying in his car (plus he probably has a few hundred in stock at his warehouse ..... he sells camera's too) and i have the same car deck as well so insteadof buying the imprint unit i just used his cos the results sit in flash memory and you never ever lose those and they only have to be redone if you change the hardware - in the meantime this was just a temporary quick solution just to be able to get to hear the sub playing at all - and yes i agree it could have been suffering from reflections off that surface cos the one i heard over at my buddy's store just sounded smoother - so yes its a great idea to redo it with a tripod and i will do it a bit away from the wall and on a chair in front of the couch
i faced it downward in an attempt to get the positioning closer to where exactly my head would be and thats around the height but i did not really think about reflections off that flat surface - so definitely that played a role in the settings - thanks for that